I recently had tea and cake with a couple from my church, and I was telling them about my plans for the future, and one of them remarked, “You are always doing something fresh. Starting new things.” I took that comment away with me, and it is true. My life since turning 18 and leaving for university has been punctuated by change, new starts, restarts, pivots and side steps. Most of these changes were not of my own instigation; it was me making the best of the situations I was